The Sixteenth Life Lesson: Love is about letting go

Dear Bella,

One wise person said love is about learning to let go. We learn to let go of our ego and be willing to truly know another person. We learn to let go of our expectations and let another person just be who he is. We also learn to let go of our fear and be courageous to express our authentic feelings. Then we let go of  the need to be right all the time and accept ourselves completely. 

Learning to love another person is actually learning how to love yourself in another person’s presence. If you feel low all the time and you don’t grow at all in a relationship, you are probably in a toxic relationship and it is time to let go. Have faith that love will come to you eventually. Love doesn’t require you to put too much effort or losing yourself. Love never fails. I have faith that you will find someone who treasures you like I do. 🙂

Mom

  

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